Controllers are Skilled Emotional Manipulators

Emotional Manipulators get extra marks for subtlety.

  • Patronizing
  • Mind-Bender
  • Crazy Making

An emotional manipulator can bend and twist and warp – with WORDS.

An emotional manipulator is a smooth operator.

What is Emotional Manipulation?

Well, emotional manipulation is a method of using WORDS, body language and behavior for the purposes of provoking a particular reaction, getting a desired response or to just plain work you over.     It’s their game.

There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator.

You make a statement and it will be turned around.   Whatever you say, the WORDS will be twisted round.

Rule number one – if dealing with an emotional blackmailer, always trust your instinct.

An emotional manipulator is the picture of a willing helper.

The Controller – The Manipulator : pits people against each other.

Keeps allies and targets separated.

Is verbally skilful at twisting words, and actions.

Is charismatic and usually gets his or her way with Emotional Blackmail.

Often undermines our support network.

Discourages us from seeing our family and friends.

The Emotional Manipulator is a Controlling Bully.

Divide and Rule  (Divide and Conquer)  is the rule.

Emotional Manipulation is  “Covert Aggression”


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